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Most women want the same thing, although they’d probably like it to last longer than three minutes.Yet you see Danish men and women in parks in the summer, sitting alone on blankets, or in cafes in the winter surrounded by their buddies or girlfriends with their hair carefully gelled, lonely and horny but contemptous of anyone who dares to approach.But much like other reported miracles, such as Christ walking on water or an American president delivering a speech he wrote himself, it’s something I’ve never seen with my own eyes.For one thing, Danish people seem to think that talking to strangers is uncouth.Ask Danish men why they don’t chat up women, and they say that women don’t want to be approached.They’ll make fun of you; they’ll think you’re desperate. What men want of course, is the same thing that has produced a world population currently approaching 7 billion.The icebreaker of course, is alcohol, and I have little doubt that if it vanished from the Earth tomorrow Danes would never reproduce.
But that was a lucky night: Since moving here, I have been to many a discoteque where women shake their booty with their girfriends for hours while men watch with pretend disinterest from the sidelines, their eyes radiating invisible beams of desire: Please, miss, ask me to dance. I know it happens; the streets are full of Danish babies.One-night stands certainly take place in the US, but it is something unusual and embarassing, like making a lot of money in Denmark.Here, drunken sex with a complete stranger seems to be the hopeful prelude to a serious relationship, possibly marriage.Before 1am, Danish men weren’t drunk enough to talk, and after 3, they were too drunk to talk.Extreme drunkeness seems to be the accepted way to meet that special someone, as explained to me in the days when I still was seeking a Danish boyfriend.